I feel that communication happens, like a chain. For example, A wants to talk to B, but B wants to talk to C, and C wants to talk to D, and so and so and so…
There are always people around you who wanted to talk to you so badly, that you don’t pay any attention to them or you just refuse to notice them. And when two persons, or more get together, the person with the dominant power will have very big impacts on people around him/her. And those people around him/her have impacts on him/her as well, because if those people don’t pay so much attention on him/her, the him/her won’t have the power to influence them. And a person can be involved in a group or more (groups). And the degree of commitment is different in different group(s), and that determine the power he/she has in that group. But, total devoting commitment doesn’t mean that he/she will have the ultimate power. If so, that has something to do with the alpha person’s personality.
What was I trying to say, I’m blurred now. So I guess I’ll better stop here before things got worse…